Wakeupday

Claire brother, Asa
现在的一切不顺利都与自己的思维模式息息相关。我和外界不该是一种消极的关系维持，更不能是一种恐惧的心情。如果遇到不如意、不開心、不快樂的事情，不妨閉上眼睛，暫時忘記所有的煩雜，不用去解決，不要去煩惱，靜靜的回想過去快樂的事，傾聽身旁喜歡的音樂，或許有些問題不去馬上解決，反而是個好方法。现在已经是人生的转折点了，别人怎样决不能成为我生活的重点，我有自己的生活而且是属于自己的生活。寻求内心的慰籍与宁静，永远都不要再自我干扰了。我现在的处境应该不应该会有什么人来干扰，一切就是只有自我干扰了。不断的告诫自己， 逐渐降低最终能够消除内心的噪音。明白自己活着的真正含义。让新的、积极的、有改进的、创新的因素不断的充斥自己的头脑，因为我对现在的生活不满。不管再糟糕的处境，只要还能有自控能力和首脑还能并用的话，我唯一所能做的就是围绕自己开展一系列围绕自己的活动。我现在所需要的只有让自己能够让自己成为自己真正的主人。
Michel Thomas http://www.douban.com/group/topic/12150691/

我现在只能凭自己的力量来战胜自己的敌人。为什么会在外界与他人身上花费如此巨大的时间和精力。我如今已经到了没有时间和闲工夫以及流失自己极其宝贵的精力在外界或者是其他和自己没有任何关联的人身上。开始从每一件小事做起，做一切和自己有关联的事情，其他排除在外。
http://topics.nytimes.com/top/opinion/editorialsandoped/oped/columnists/thomaslfriedman/index.html

I doubt they are worth paying attention to. Life is waay too short to care about others. If they are not coming to push their fist down me throat, it is nothing to me. dont stress it! That happens to me too. I just ignore it, or try smiling at them. It's hard to tell what they are thinking though. But yeah, either ignore them or smile at them. hey, i had this problem too... people are very rude, but i think it's best to not get yourself down about it... when they stare, just stare back in an exaggerated way lol...or just tell yourself that they're staring at you because you're handsome...or beautiful if you're a girl...but try to not let it bother you, i know it's difficult though, especially when you're having a bad day and would rather that people just leave you alone...but the best thing is to not look for them staring at you, because really they do it to everybody...i remember at one point i was so annoyed and spoke to a friend of mine about it and they said it happened to them a lot too so try not to worry ok...and like i said at the beginning of my answer...just milk it, have fun with it, that's the best way to go :) just ignore them and show them how much you don't care. and be your awesome self :D good luck i just remind myself that they're just curious and mean no harm :] It's really their curiosity and has little to do with you personally. You can't make them not look, but you can control how you handle it - try a deep breath, or just a smile.

时间实在是太快、太短暂了。如果真的是如此认为的话，我就不应该再继续浪费自己的生命与时间了。有些人可以取得如此多的成就，而有些人却是碌碌无为而挥霍一生。永远不可能把自己的命运交在他人手里，更不能时刻都看他人眼色，这样活着只会阻碍自己人生发展，更不可能会有快乐。同样是个正常的人，为何要这样虐待自己，不让自己可以有好的活法呢？别人没有资格，最终的决定权还是在自己手里。

一个人活在这个世上，决不要让外界以及外在因素干扰了自己正常生活。我到底需要什么？在以后的人生路上，我怎样让自己越活越符合自己的初衷，不要再和自己过不去。不会有其他人在乎我。自己判断什么才是自己应该做的？不要受其他因素特别是来自外界因素的干扰。尽快寻觅到适合自己的生活方式。逐渐明晰自己的生活目标，和外界或者其他人没有半点关系。如果事情和自己没有关系，根本没有必要动半点心思。forget the things don't matter to me and totally focus on the ones which really matter to me. There are only several things in this world that really matter to me and need to draw my attention and none of them come from outsiders. 把自己引入适合自己的人生道路上来，把所有的心思都放在能够改进自己的方向上来。来自外界的干扰太多，自己应该有意识地加强免疫力。我不能让自己去做心理承受力的试验品。我是一个普通的正常人，应当拥有和享受正常人可能经历的一切。兴着就时时刻刻考虑属于自己的事情，没有必要去干涉他人的事情。决不能让自己的时间和精力外泄。for my own sake, stoping bothering myself. 让自己有足够的精力和时间去接受有价值的讯息和事物。让自己逐渐形成一种新的自己想要的思维模式。这是我自己的人生应该以自己为重心。