ProblemSolving

你怎么知道她们看的就是你？也许只是你太内向，害怕与人交往，所以才会有这样的错觉。再说，就是她们看你，对你又有什么影响呢？她们看你你会掉块肉吗？用不着太在意别人的目光，自己该做什么做什么。实在紧张，你可以对自己说她们不是在看你，只是在看周围的事周围的人。 那只是你的想法.人活在这个世上都很匆忙，真正对陌生人关心的人少之又少，你是否太敏感了一些？其实可能是你太关注这种事情了，否则你怎么能发觉别人在盯着你看？不要把注意力固着在让你不安的这些现象上，而要多做自己该做的事情，比如到饭店吃饭，多注意点的美食、与共同进餐的亲人朋友多交流，这样你会发现别人对你的“注视”会越来越少，你也会不再关注。这也就是所谓的“顺其自然，为所当为”。如果这种情形你不喜欢，但是又无法避免,你改变不了别人可以改变一下自己啊，比如说赶紧离开这个地方什么的，换个地方呼吸一下新鲜空气.不过其实没必要太在乎别人怎么样了,也或许是你想的太多了.也可以如果你觉得别人在看你的时候，你就也看别人啊,看看谁能把谁看羞,而且这样也可以充分的验证一下别人到底是不是在看你啊! 主要还是你自己的心理问题，你可以试着想想找找自己会害怕的原因，然后才去找办法。别人一般是不能帮你什么了。我归根到底就是一个普通人，拥有一般人的一切感受和反应，没有和别人不一样的地方，关键是看事情的态度。《你的身体会说话》

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Just make sure your husband feels he’s the only man in your life 24/7. A woman should earn her man’s love and not take it for granted. A man goes where he feels he’s needed. Will you face it or will you let it imprison you.The problem is we put a lot of emphasis on other people’s opinion about us. The right thing to say is to hell with those people. I don’t care what they think of me. I’m gonna enjoy what i’m doing. No matter what they say, do, or think. No matter how matter how i feel about it. talk and listen in any relationship. The key is to face your fears... it gives you the power and the energy because you have encountered your fears.. but if you give up and hide, it gives me the feeling of loosing.You’ll feel the ure to escape... don’t.. stay there... if you feel really uncomfortable, so maybe you didn’t do it the baby-steps way..it’s very important to divide your goal into little steps, so you will be successful. Don’t jump into the deep water...try the shallow end first then go slowly to the deeper levels.If you have nothing to do with them, then ignore them. If you have to deal with them, then try to put some fun on the relationship with them, and always try to start conversation with them